| What are some
reasons to break up? Here's some we gathered from around the web.
Be sure to add your own reasons to break
up at the end of the page.
From http://www.poemofquotes.com/
articles/reasons-to-break-up.php
"Top 5 Reasons to Break
Up
There are always reasons to break
up, but some more common than others. If any of these things happen, it is
time to move on and find another love.
It's time to break up if you
have...
1. An abusive relationship.
2. No trust.
3. Found someone else.
4. Loss of interest.
5. No future together. "
From
http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t29527/
"Q. reasons to break
up...
I've been with my bf for 5 years now.
It hasnt been all that easy, but this year it was hell and I made the wrong
decision i think.
Early this year my bf confronted me,
saying that he wasnt happy in our relationship any more, he wanted to be
free. I didnt see it coming and i was schocked. We talked and argued about
it for a month resulting in my bf staying with me. He said he was wrong and
wanted to stay with me and he seemed/ still seems happy with that
decision.
My problem is that i regret asking
him to stay when he wanted to break up. My problem is that we havent been
sleeping with each other for a few months at a time, and this makes me really
insecure and not wanted, and he thinks its not that important. Well, it is
for me, I want a relationship with someone who cares about me physically
too. Although we live together, there's a huge distance between us. I'm not
even sure i love him any more...
Am i being silly? We connect very
well otherwise, it's easy to live with him. Should i break up? Everyday i'm
more convinced i should... I'm also worried why we dont connect physically
any more, it is really emotionally tiring!!
Anyone some good
advice??
A. That sounds like a crappy situation.
Honestly, if you are even questioning your feelings for him, you are losing
some feeling for him. Maybe it WOULD be a good thing to end it. You may be
able to save a friendship and/or the relationship by ending it now. You need
the break before it turns into a huge fight and you two never speak again.
Good luck!
From
http://www.essortment.com
"Three reasons to break up with your
boyfriend
The three reasons to break up with
your boyfriend include: the two of you having different goals for the future,
physical or emotional abuse, and a lack of trust.
Four reasons to break up with your
girlfriend
Four reasons to break up with your
girlfriend include the following: you are leading her on, you don't trust
her, your relationship has made your life worse, or you are only with her
out of guilt."
From
http://rogerebert.suntimes.com/apps/pbcs.dll
/article?AID=/20060601/REVIEWS/60517001/1023
"The Break-Up, review by BY ROGER
EBERT
The Break-Up" hints that the broken-up
couple will get back together again, but that doesn't make us eager for a
sequel. The movie stars Vince Vaughn and Jennifer Aniston as Gary and Brooke,
a steady couple who have many reasons to break up but none to get together,
except that they fall in love. Since the scenes where they're together are
so much less convincing than the ones where they fall apart, watching the
movie is like being on a double-date from hell."
From
http://uk.answers.yahoo.com/question/
index?qid=20110302052037AAHREKW
"Q. What makes your girlfriend to
break up with you even though you havent done anything wrong to
her?
A. here is truth to the saying, "It's
not you, it's me." Really you don't have to do anything wrong for someone
to break up with you. Feelings change all the time. It could be many different
things...she finds someone else attractive, she's tired of being in a
relationship, she's having a serious mood swing, who ever really knows. All
I can say is, don't think to hard about it...what happens, happens. You dwelling
over it won't change anything at all.
A. Girls dont need reasons to break
up, they do it coz they feel like it."
From
http://tamilmovies.withme.us/DISCUSSION-COMMUNITY
-c2/Marriage-Love-Relationships-f9/
10-STUPID-REASONS-TO-BREAK-UP-p91.htm
"10 STUPID REASONS TO BREAK
UP
1. STUPID SECRETS
withholding important informations for fear of rejection
2. STUPID EGOTISM
asking not what you can do for the relationship but only what the relationship
can do for you
3. STUPID PETTINESS
making a big deal out of the small stuff
4. STUPID POWER
the need to always be in control
5. STUPID PRIORITIES
consuming all your time and energies with work, hobbies, errands and chores
instead of focusing on your relationship
6. STUPID HAPPINESS
seeking stimulation and assurance from all the wrong places to satisfy the
immature need to feel good
7. STUPID EXCUSES
not being accountable for bad behavior
8. STUPID LIAISONS
not letting go of negative attachments to friends and relatives who are damaging
to your relationship
9. STUPID MISMATCH
not knowing when to leaveand cut your losses
10. STUPID BREAKUPS
disconnecting for all the wrong reasons"
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From
http://www.usatoday.com/life/television/
reviews/2006-01-09-emilys-reasons_x.htm
"Wanted: Reasons to watch 'Emily',
By Robert Bianco, USA TODAY
I have a feeling Emily's about to
learn a few more reasons why not.
Emily (Heather Graham) comes up with
endless reasons to break up. Emily (Heather Graham) comes up with endless
reasons to break up.
ABC
Not that anyone should really need
to be taught the reasons why this might not be the best time to launch yet
another painfully precious, heavily narrated Sex and the City salute to the
dating trials of the young and the beautiful. The explanations for viewer
exhaustion with the genre should be obvious even to a TV novice like Heather
Graham.
Graham does exude an almost irresistible
all-American-girl adorability, so much so that you're willing to forgive
her lapses in sitcom skill.
Even at her worst, when she's contorting
her face to match the coy, thought-revealing voice-over, you tend to root
for her. Unfortunately for ABC, by the end of Emily's Reasons Why Not, you're
rooting for her to find a better vehicle.
The sitcom casts Graham as Emily Sanders,
a successful publishing executive who has spent her life cataloguing the
reasons against taking various courses of action. When her affair with a
cheating self-help author goes south, she decides to apply a new countdown
rule to romance: If she can come up with five reasons why a relationship
won't work, she dumps the guy."
From
http://watkins.gospelcom.net/breakingup.htm
Reasons to break
up
"Know when to break
up
It's time to call it quits
when:
1. You can't be yourself with your
partner.
2. You feel that the relationship
is smothering you emotionally, socially, or spiritually. (Remember the Cling-ons
from the last chapter?)
3. You sense there are differences
in values, beliefs, and life goals. (Reread chapter 7 if you feel you're
in an unstable relationship.)
4. One of you is moving a distance
away. Looking back, both Sandy and I would have missed rich opportunities
to get to know other people if we had tried to keep up a 150-mile relationship
for several years. As soon as I left, she started to date one of my good
friends. It took me longer to start dating seriously again, but I then met
my wife-to-be.
5. You find yourself outgrowing the
person. I really believed we were right for each other during the time Sandy
and I were together, but we were growing in different
directions.
6. You're in an emotionally, physically,
or sexually abusive relationship. Don't make excuses for your partner—just
get out!"
From http://www.cnn.com/SPECIALS/
views/y/9805/brooke.seinfeld/#2
"Saying goodbye to self-indulgence
with 'Seinfeld', By Jill Brooke, CNN Showbiz
Correspondent
".... Reasons to break up, and
avoid growing up
The reasons cited for breaking up
were memorable and laughable.
Seinfeld "'Seinfeld' revealed men's
military secrets. They really will break up over whether you eat peas one
at a time," explained Mark Simone, a stand-up comedy writer and television
historian.
Before "Seinfeld," we were taught
to believe bad morals or bad manners could cause a
break-up.
But we learned that having bad taste
in commercials, laughing strangely, having big hands, not kissing on the
third date and, worst of all, being liked by your parents, were all acceptable
dumping grounds.
Deep down, the show's characters never
wanted to settle down. They weren't after a mate to bicker with or kids to
give them one crisis after another. They weren't looking to work in an office
where their boss gave them ulcers.
They wanted to remain young, carefree,
fun-loving single people. The cast looked and acted as though they were fresh
out of college.
For Jerry, cereal was fine cuisine
and Superman cartoons were great art. You rarely saw George in a tie and
jacket. Kramer looked like he got his wardrobe from vintage clothing stores.
And Elaine's hair was often anything but coifed.
As for their apartments, they were
more Ikea than Martha Stewart.
The characters, like so many baby
boomers, were determined not to live their parents' lives and settle down
at 25."
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