| Marriage Break
Up - advice and more!
Whether it is in your own home, or on
the latest entertainment news, a marriage break up is a thing to feel sad
over.
Relationships always end for a reason,
but when your own marriage break ups, the feelings of failure and loss can
be overwhelming.
Below we've gathered some marriage break
up news from around the web, and, as usual, please be sure to leave your
comments and suggestions below regarding the break up of
marriage.
From
http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/4759156/
"How to tell the kids about marriage
break-up
Correct timing and a united front
are crucial for this very difficult conversation, says ‘Today’
contributor Dr. Ruth Peters
Q: My husband and I are considering
a trial separation in the near future. Obviously, we wonder what is the best
way to tell our three kids, ages nine, twelve and fourteen. He feels that
we should tell them immediately since we know that we will be separating,
but I would like to wait as long as possible to do so since I believe it
will upset them. In your experience, what is the best time frame for telling
kids and what’s the best way to do it?
A: Parents separating, and therefore
disrupting the children’s home, is one of the most traumatic experiences
that many kids go through in their formative years. The timing and manner
in which it is presented can make the difference between a tolerable situation
and a frightening, traumatic event. Rarely is separation a relief to kids,
generally it is a confusing and fearful time. Expect unpleasant effects on
the children no matter how you tell them, but try to hold these to a
minimum."
From
http://au.pfinance.yahoo.com/life-stages/
getting-married/divorce/
"Divorce - Facing A Marriage Break
Up
It may seem unromantic in the first
flush of married life to talk about what will happen after the divorce, but
it's best to protect yourself financially as much as possible. Emotions can
run high when a divorce is in progress, so talking about issue well before
they arise when you're still madly in love is a good
idea.
A financial agreements can be used
to specify how your property and/or spouse maintenance will be arranged if
you separate, and can be made before or during marriage. A 'pre-nuptial
agreement' is the term commonly used for a financial agreement made before
marriage.
A financial agreement will only be
binding if it meets certain requirements set out in the Family Law Act 1975
(Cth), and you'll need to get legal advice when putting one
together.
Property settlement is the process
of dividing up both your and your partner's property after you separate.
Both your and your partner's property is included, regardless of whose name
it is in, and includes:
* Real property e.g. land, houses
and units
* Any other property which can be owned e.g. furniture, cars, money, shares,
boats etc.
* Superannuation"
From http://www.ciao.co.uk/
Marriage_Break_Up_Penny_Jordan__31191
"Reviews of Marriage Break Up - Penny
Jordan
Marriage Break Up
Abbie Howard's daughter is getting
married and the love she has for her daughter makes her want the perfect
wedding for her. Abbie has always given her daughter everything she has always
wanted apart from one thing and that is the name of her real father. He walked
away from Abbie believing that the child she carried was not his. When Sam
Howard finds out that the child Abbi had was really his daughter he would
stop at nothing to be able to..."
From http://www.taipeitimes.com/News/|
sport/archives/2007/01/09/2003344073
"Warne discusses marriage break-up
woes
Australia's Shane Warne acknowledges
the crowd after Australia won the fifth and final Ashes cricket Test against
England and the series 5-0 at the Sydney Cricket Ground on
Friday.
In a frank exchange with top British
television interviewer Michael Parkinson, Warne admits the marriage break-up
was his fault, Australian media reported yesterday ahead of the broadcast
later in the day.
"There were times when I sat by myself
and cried," Warne told Parkinson.
"Some of the things that I've done
and the mistakes I've made I'm not proud of, but it shows I'm human," the
world's top Test wicket-taker said.
"If I had stopped and thought `hang
on a minute,' I wouldn't have done it.But unfortunately I gave way to
temptation," he said."
From http://www.dailynews.co.za
/index.php?fArticleId=3693824
"Henin reveals pain of marriage
break-up
Justine Henin admitted that the shock
of the break-up of her marriage is so great that she has no immediate goal
to regain the world No 1 spot, and can't yet think about anything other than
playing tennis over the next couple of months.
The former triple Grand Slam titleholder
from Belgium spoke openly about the pain in her life, making it clear that
her ability to get over the trauma will depend on how she is treated, especially
during the next few weeks.
Just days before beginning the defence
of her Dubai Open title she made an appeal to be allowed
privacy.
"I want to keep my private life with
the name I give it - it's private. I am sure a lot of people understand that.
You always have a lot of people who are very curious and they want to know
why and who - and who cares? That's my life.
"Everyone has to respect it because
we all have the same rights. We can talk about tennis and I know I am a public
person. I understand that perfectly."
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From http://www.ncahs.nsw.gov.au/men
/index.php?pageid=931&siteid=191
"Marriage Break up and
Separation
If you are dealing with the difficult
process of marriage break up and separation you are probably finding the
going very tough and odds are that you don't have many people to talk to
about your feelings. Many men find it difficult to confide in others - partly
because men are often brought up believing they must always appear strong,
and that asking for help is a sign of inadequacy. Another reason is that
although a man may have friends with whom he works, socialises or plays sport,
they're not always the kind of relationships in which he feels he can confide
his deepest feelings.
The fact that men often don't have
enough emotional support is a major reason why, when marriages break up,
many men develop emotional problems which can eventually affect their health.
Each year in Australia there are around 52,000 divorces and 70,000 separations
- a figure which includes couples living in long term de facto relationships.
According to Geoff Price, of the NSW Men's Health and Wellbeing Association,
an organisation which aims to improve the health and wellbeing of men and
boys in the community, this adds up to large numbers of men who aren't coping
with the aftermath of separation. According to research by the Family Court
of Australia, many men are still struggling with problems related to separation
ten years after the event."
From
http://www.aceshowbiz.com/news/view/00007075.html
"Ryan Phillippe's Heart to Heart Talks
About Marriage Break-Up
He talks. Ryan Phillippe breaks his
silence on his marriage break-up with estranged wife Reese
Witherspoon.
In an interview with TV's Extra, which
is about to be aired this week, the actor says, "Everyday it's up and down;
it is the most difficult time in my life. The focus really has to be on our
kids; we both love them so much, and they're doing amazingly well, better
than I am probably. But it's difficult, life ain't
easy."
What's more Ryan also revealed that
going through a break-up in the public eye makes things harder. "It's unfortunate
when you have kids ... but I signed up for this and have to deal with it.
I don't read the magazines or watch the shows. ... It's hard when people
follow me to my kid's school.""
From
http://www.imdb.com/news/wenn/2003-04-21
"Robbie Coltrane Depressed After Marriage
Break-Up
Harry Potter star Robbie Coltrane
is seeking help at The Priory clinic after the breakdown of his marriage.
The chubby actor is devastated after his wife walked out with their two children,
and is having intensive therapy under the care of a consultant and a dietician.
The 20-stone Scot, who plays gentle giant Hagrid in the Potter films, has
long battled problems with alcohol, depression and weight. A pal says, "Robbie
has hit rock bottom. The fact that he is seeing a dietician shows how worried
he is about his old eating habits coming back. The marriage break-up is a
stressful event that can respark old addictions. Robbie is very sensible
in seeking help. He is shattered that he hasn't been able to work out his
problems with Rhona and is no longer with his children. They had been together
for 11 years and seemed to have one of the most solid marriages in showbiz.
Robbie just feels like his world has caved in." "
***
Fresh from her marriage break-up from
Crash actor Ryan Phillippe, 32, pretty Reese Witherspoon, 30, has been spotted
in Los Angeles with notorious bachelor George Clooney.
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