| Need some great
break up tips? Here's some tips gathered from around the web, plus some break
up tips of our own!
Breaking up is one of
the hardest things you'll ever have to do. And I say 'have to' because nearly
all people go through a break up at least once in their life time.
When the relationship just isn't working
out, how's the best way to break up with ease? Below we have found some tips
and suggestions from around the web on how to do this. As usual, please leave
your comments, advice, and your very own break up tips at the end of the
page.
From http://www.askmen.com/dating/
heidi_100/112_dating_girl.html
"7 Break Up Tips For A Broken
Relationship
When a relationship is on its last
leg and a break up is inevitable, who ends it? Recognizing that her habits
have become annoying instead of cute is just the start. Her rude cell phone
calls mid-meal, the way she thinks she's always right, and her complete lack
of respect for your opinion should all be sending you a clear
message.
Relationships often go bad -- and
stay that way. Even when both people know that they would be happier with
someone else, it's human nature to procrastinate about difficult decisions.
So rather than riding inertia's wave, use these seven helpful tips to break
up and move on.
1- Make her the first to know
2- Find a neutral zone
3- End it in person
4- Keep it simple
5- Get her to see your point of view
6- Don't change your mind
7- Be ready for tears"
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From
http://hisin2ism.in2ism.com/HIS_IN2/
ARTICLES/view_article.php?AR_ID=198
§ion=HIS&subsection=DATING_HIS
"8 Break Up Tips
Ending a relationship is never easy.
But having the balls to follow through with your decision to end it will
make both you and her happier. Its no secret, relationships go bad, and the
ones that do, usually stay bad. Most people tend procrastinate when it comes
to this difficult decision. Rather than beating a dead horse, use these tips
to abandon ship and move on. A note to all potential psychos. I don’t
care how emotional the conversation gets, there's no excuse for abuse or
risking her safety or yours.
1. She should be the first to know
2. Monday or Friday
3. Neutralize
4. Face to Face
5. Simplicity
6. Don’t be a Flip-Flopper.
7. Tears, tears and probably more tears!
8. Move on"
From http://lesbianlife.about.com/od
/lesbiandating/ht/BreakUp.htm
"How To Survive a Lesbian Relationship
Break-Up Tips
Whether you have left your partner,
or she has left you, surviving a lesbian break-up is hard. Sometimes it may
feel like you may never recover from the break-up. But you will. These tips
might make recovering from a break-up easier.
1. Recognize what has happened.
2. Next you might feel anger toward your partner.
3. Get support.
4. Mourn, but don't wallow.
5. Get Closure.
6. No Rebounds.
7. Let it all out.
8. Look at yourself.
9. "That which does not destroy us will make us stronger."
10. "Let go and let God.""
Break-Up Tips
Do you have any tips you can share with
us about break ups?
Be kind, and be honest. Don't make up
any stories or come up with excuses. Be direct. Use "I" words rather than
"you" words. For example: "I think our relationship has run its course and
I'm ready to move on," rather than "You are a lazy slob." No name calling,
and no ABCs (assuming, blaming, complaining).
Is it best to do it in person? Is it
o.k. to write a letter or do it over the phone? What about e-mail? Is it
possible to still stay friends? If we already live together how do we split
everything equally and remain civilized.
It's best to break up in person, but
you can use as a guideline how long you've been together and how close you've
been. If you've just been dating a few weeks and haven't been intimate, then
a phone call is acceptable, but not a voice mail. Never e-mail! And be careful
what you put in writing, you don't know who will read it. It is possible
to stay friends if that is what you both want. Sometimes one party is hurt
by the break-up, which makes it difficult. In that case some time apart to
heal is best. If you live together, spend a Saturday figuring out what is
"his," "hers," and "ours." The person who is moving out gets first choice
in picking what to take from the "ours" pile. Remind yourselves that you
are both adults and act with rationality rather than emotion. And remember
that time really does heal all wounds, so even if it feels terrible at the
moment, it will get better.
(Lissa Coffey is the author of several
books, including the best-selling "What's Your Dosha, Baby?" She appears
on national TV with her lifestyle and relationship tips, including The Today
Show, and has been featured in magazines like Redbook and Woman's Day. Learn
more, and sign up for any of Lissa's free e-mail newsletters at:
www.coffeytalk.com/newsletters.php)
From http://peoplerelationships.syl.com
/relationshipproblem/breakuptips
"Relationship break up
tips
Making an attempt to cross one's t's
and dot one's i's in relationship with an intimate friend, one would rather
work out a kind of break up conversation model. This relationship advice
is to be guided by those, who try to avoid after-pains of rebound relationship,
as well as to have a go at another successful soul mate search. Sincere and
friendly manner of relationships break up gives an opportunity to appreciate
reasonably all the pros and cons of your decision.
1. The preparatory stage of relationship
break up lies in a well-considered desire to bid one's farewell.
2. Having thought over the necessity of relationship break up, one should
keep in mind that procrastination is the thief of time.
3. The worst relationship break up advice to be imagined is to avoid the
last talk.
4. Hold the strong will in your fist and go on talking.
5. The one, hanging in the wind towards the relationship break up, would
better learn not to let the past steal the
present."
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From
http://media.www.jhunewsletter.com/media
/storage/paper932/news/2006/12/07/
YourNewsLetter/How-To.Break.Up-2530498.shtml
"HOW TO BREAK UP
Think it's time to call it quits?
Hopkins students give the breakdown on breaking up.
However you decide to end it, most
people agree that a good breakup should be done in person. "Instant messages
are not good. I've done it before, but I don't prefer it," senior Brian Deleo
recommended. "Same goes for texting or e-mail," Erik Napp added, "Oh c9 and
you can't be wasted either."
Sophomore Adam Tanious claimed there
are two ways to say goodbye. The first way, he said, is to "act in a way
so that he/she will break up with you. I mean, it's not as considerate, but
it works." In agreement with Tanious are juniors Andrew Rocca and Andrew
Zucherman. Rocca suggested, "You should try to trick them into breaking up
with you." "But how?," you may ask. "Just don't meet up with simple demands.
Oh, and don't go to their formals or your formals." Zucherman claimsedhe
ditched his girlfriend to go to sleep early. After all, he had to wake up
at 3 a.m. to watch Battlestar Galactica. What a
heartbreaker!
Tanious's second breakup method is
quick, clean and hey! -- it even has some moral value: "You can also be
completely straightforward and honest." Freshman Victoria Sowa said, "Break
it to them gently. Give them at least three reasons. Tell him/her that you
still love them, but you cannot continue to love them in that way anymore."
Although this way may lack the cowardice and creativity of the first formula,
it seemed to be the breakup of choice among most students
interviewed.
If neither of these strategies seems
right for you, freshman Dan Myers had an easy alternative. "When they come
near you, throw water balloons at them!"
Telling someone you don't want to
see them, don't want to talk to them and/or don't love them may seem difficult.
But just follow these easy break-up tips, and it'll be
easy!"
From
http://contest.time.net.my/superxgf/break.cfm
"BREAK-UP TIPS &
TRICKS
Whether you’re trying to get out
or trying to stay in, these are some fun ways to break-up… or
not
| HE
BREAKS-UP… |
SHE SAYS… |
| I think we need some time
apart. |
Oh that’s too bad because I just
learned this new bedroom trick I wanted to try. |
| I’m in love with someone
else. |
Oh, you too? |
| We’re too
different. |
I know – isn’t it
exciting? |
| I’m leaving you. |
Will you be back, or should I call
<name of ex-boyfriend> over? |
| SHE
BREAKS-UP… |
HE SAYS… |
| I think we should see other
people. |
Wow, that’s great! I never knew
you were into swing! |
| I don’t love you
anymore. |
What’s love got to do with
it? |
| I can’t live with you
anymore. |
Neither can I – shall we
switch? |
| Get out. |
Of what? |
From http://www.genmay.net/
showthread.php?p=20456379
" Breaking up
Q. I've been with this girl for the
last year or so, and it's really come down to the wire. She talks about marriage
and kids, and I can only think about what can I do to get single again. I'm
21 years old, shes 18. I just don't know what I need to do, or say that will
let her know that I don't want to be in a relationship anymore. I don't want
to think about kids for X amount of time because I dont want to. I don't
think kids are right for someone who's 21. At least for me anyway. I should
also note that I've broken up with her twice already, but guilt has brought
me back. I'll do anything to make a girl stop crying. Ugh! [m] what should
I do!? I need break up tips!
A. "We've grown apart and want different
things. I know it hurts,and will be hard for a while, but I really dont'
feel as if I can be in a relationship right now. I don't want to hurt you,
but I'll hurt you more if I continue to date you when my heart's not in it.
I'm sorry"
And don't go back this time. Cut ties
and give each other some space so you don't get sucked back into familiar
territory.
A. Did guilt bring you back, or do
you really care for her? I think the real issue is that you need to tell
her you will not budge on your view of having kids and getting
married."
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